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I was passing a group of guys on the sidewalk, one of whom got in my way with his arms held out and asked if I would like to hug him
Guy walked past me and grabbed my penis. I was so mad
I was walking back to my building from the subway at 3:30 am and as I went to cross 139th, a police car slowed down and stopped in front of me and rolled their window down. I waved and they asked if I was going home, to which I said yes, and then one of the cops asked if he could come home with me…
I chastised him saying he was supposed to be a cop and to act like an adult before I quickly hurried away. UNBELIEVABLE!
I am SO angry! On the R a man walked over and stood in front of me with his dick out. I got up and moved towards some other ladies to confer that they’d seen the same thing.
I then left the car to tell the conductor. He went to check in it and said he couldn’t guarantee anything but he told the guy to pull up his pants and he had. I feel violated. Seriously?! I’ve never heard of a woman doing that!
I was walking through the park towards my apartment at 5:30pm pushing a baby in a stroller, and was suddenly approached by three boys. One of the boys hit me in the buttocks saying “Boom Baby”! All the boys then ran away before I had a chance to respond.
I was shocked – the park should be an area free of harassment.
“Hello!” and when I didn’t respond, “Nice body!”
Last night, 2/16/14, as I was walking home from the subway station near Barclays Center in Brooklyn at 8:30pm, a large black SUV slowly rolled up next to me getting closer to the curb, the driver rolled down his window and started taking to me. I could see there was someone in the passenger seat. I could not hear the driver, but he was not asking for directions. I could tell by the smirk on his face. NY plates. It was scary. He could easily have abducted me.
Exiting Hoyt-Schermerhorn subway station: “You’re in the wrong neighborhood Snow White. Where you going baby? I said where you going?!”
I was waiting for the 1 train at 110th street at approx 7:10 pm last night (Saturday 2/8/14). I was approached by a 50ish male. He was talking quietly to me, I had to ask him several times to repeat himself. I realized he was trying to give me his email address.
He told me to email him because he wants to give it to me and said he has a “big one” down there, at which point he thrust his hips at me. I walked away and he followed, when I stopped he kept walking.
My phone was ripped out of my hands by a thief on Monday night. I didn’t even hear him coming – one second, I was reading on my phone, and the next, a man leaned over my body, ripped it from my hands, and ran in the other direction. It was just a phone, an object, a thing, and it could have been so much worse. But the experience has left me feeling powerless and violated all the same. I only saw the back of him, but he was tall and skinny and dressed casually – not a very specific description, and I don’t want to breed fear of all men or anything like that. But one thing I can urge is to try to resist the temptation to pass time waiting for trains by looking constantly at your phone. Maybe awareness on my part wouldn’t have made a difference. Then again, maybe it would have. Either way, it couldn’t hurt. Be safe and well.